Our Kids Don’t Need Us to Know the Answers | Conscious Channeling
What is channeling?
Channeling is when we choose to move frequency through our bodies - or when we pick up information around us and translate it. I personally experience it as knowings, insights, ideas, clear thoughts that come into my awareness.
Is it different for everyone?
I think it is - imagine in your head right now, how you “imagine” things. Do you hear sounds? Do you feel feelings? Do you smell the scents? Do you see images? It’s likely that is how channeling works for you primarily. The more people come into awareness about it - the more they realize that all the senses are participating - but many people have one or two particularly strong “Clairs”.
What are “clairs”?
Well - let me tell ya - this is a word I only just learned in the last 2 years. Do you need to know what a “Clair” is to channel? Nope. But here’s what it is - Clairs are ways that people sense frequencies or energies (call it all whatever you want - I’m not attached to much over here).
Clairvoyance means clear seeing. These folks see images, pictures, film-like things - this is how I experience channeling a lot of the time. I can see pictures, or little film-strip-moments (and I feel the feelings that go with the images).
Clairsentience means clear feeling. These folks feel other’s feelings, pain, etc - sometimes in their own body. Again - all of us have all of these ways of experiencing but there are some people who have this one more often. I experience this one a lot when channeling with groups - I can feel spaces in people’s body where there’s a story, or a block, or something that wants to be witnessed. It comes in as a direct feeling like “pain”, “stiffness” or even “joy” which I feel in my own body but I know it’s not MY feeling - I know it’s something I’m sensing in the participant’s body. I also know that I won’t have access to those feelings unless that person’s higher self (or that person overall) is ready for that to be witnessed.
Clairaudience means clear hearing. These folks hear information - or frequencies. My experience of this is sounds like buzzing or fizzzz sounds which are accompanied by knowings - it’s hard to explain. I also hear the sounds of someone’s experience sometimes - I will hear the “vibration” of voices but not voices - again hard to explain. So for example, I may be working with someone and I can hear a higher pitched vibration that I would identify as a woman’s voice, but I only hear the vibration - not the actual words. The words come from my translation or interpretation of the sound. I know for others, they will hear clear voices or clear sounds. When I was a kid, I described it as “I can hear the space between the notes on the piano, but not the notes”. This is where “Light Breath and the Space Between” which has been the tag line of all my businesses came from.
Clairgustance means clear tasting. This means that people experience taste when picking up on frequencies. That is super cool and not something I have experienced often. I have noticed tastes in my mouth a few times - often I taste tears or I taste the feeling of a person clenching their teeth or biting their tongue. That has happened when I’ve been picking up on someone’s experience perhaps as a child where they felt scared.
Clairsalience means clear smelling. Some people describe this as a sudden smell of roses (for example) that smells just like the soap their grand-mother wore. They pick up on scents. I find this so interesting and cool!
Claircognizance means clear knowing. This is when folks “just know” stuff. It may feel like instinct or a “download” as many people say. This is something I experience often - I think we all do. I believe we have access to all experiences because we are all connected.
Clairtangent means clear touch. These folks will get information through touch - perhaps in touching an object or a person. Yup. I get this one a lot too.
What is channeling like?
I will be sharing more videos every few weeks so people can see what this is all about. I spent years hiding and wondering if I was a little off my rocker because I experienced most of the Clairs above.
However over time, I realized it was just me. A few years ago I met a mentor who has guided me with language and understanding into what I have been experiencing my whole life. With that learning I became more comfortable telling people that it was a thing I did.
For me it’s…just being me. We are all channels (another conversation yes) - you are channeling YOU right now.
I happen to be very sensitive to many people’s higher selves, the frequencies of people who have passed and people who are currently alive (you’ll see this in the video - I can feel her daughter), other dimensions (yup, this is why I thought I was off my tree) and the frequencies of love, unity consciousness and oh boy - so much more.
I understand now that I would not have “access” to this information without a person’s permission - which is very comforting for me because I used to wonder if I was trespassing. I’m happy to report that I only have access to what people are ready to know and want to know.
I also sense “healing and loving” beings sometimes very strongly - it’s like they come to hold space and witness someone in transition from separation (a person feels “I hate a part of myself”) into unity (integration). They’ve been around me since I was a kid (thank goodness) and now it feels like they are team-mates in this work. I feel like I’m here to ground and deliver the “On Earth” experience for people who are ready to integrate and the beings are witnessing and SO SO loving for all of it.
It’s like they love us humans fully and keep us connected to Source until we can connect ourselves and love ourselves fully. I have known them my whole life and they are probably the coolest dudes I know.
I’ve included a video here from a group channeling call. You will notice that sometimes my eyes are closed (I do this a lot) and other times I look up to the right or left - I believe that’s how I “tune in” sometimes. There are lots of times where I just look like I’m in conversation with my eyes open - because the info is just flowing through.
Transcript from the channeling experience
Participant was feeling triggered in experience with her daughter’s heavy feelings (anger and negative self-talk) and wanted to feel more connected with her.
Elle: So what experience do you want to have with your daughter? Let’s bring it home.
Participant: I just want her to feel free in exploring these things that she loves to do without being so hard on herself. I want it to be fun and easy for her.
Elle: Tell me if this resonates. I want to give her the freedom to explore who she is and experience love.
Participant: Yeah. Yes.
Elle: So, she is just like you. She’s a child so they need food and shelter - that’s our job. But she is capable of all these things (feelings). So she said, “I don’t know my purpose”. How can you give her the experience of freedom to explore who she is and experience love when she says “I don’t my purpose”? How do you do that?
Participant: Yeah, I don’t know. I don’t know what to do with that, I really don’t.
Elle: Kids need to feel a sense of security blanket around them like a safe space. They are still navigating that, right? We are that for them until they can do it for themselves. She’s entering into the zone of beginning to create her own safety blanket. She’s moving into that space of her life. She’s still in the in-between stage but she’s moving closer to the independence from parents stage.
Elle: She literally said it, “I don’t know my purpose”. So as a parent can you say, “That’s a really good question”. You don’t need to answer her question.
Participant: Right.
Elle: “Do you want to go for a walk sometime and talk about it? I’d love to hear what you think. I’d love to hear what you believe is true about your purpose. Tell me more about it.”
Participant: Right, I guess the hard thing was, she did say things though in a moment of frustration and anger. “I have no purpose”. It was all very, really negative self-talk which I guess was hard to hear.
Elle: And so, can you accept that? Can you accept that’s where your daughter is?
Participant: It’s hard but yeah.
Elle: If you do, when you accept what’s real, the cycle of divine timing begins. That’s how it works. You will step onto the path of transmutation. You step into awareness, when you are ready to accept it you do, responsibility - do you see how this works? “I know my daughter feels really hard things about her life and she feels purposeless and she gets really angry and says really negative things about herself. I’m gonna take responsibility for this experience I’m having with my daughter. I want her to feel loved and be free to explore who she is. What’s my next best step? We’re gonna go for a walk. I’m going to give her the space to explore who she is. Do you see how it works?
Participant: Yeah. That feels good, that feels like what needs to happen. And I know she wants more time alone with me. I know she wants more of my undivided attention. I know she needs that - more connection. I know what she wants to do, what she wants to work with, and what she wants to work on, so I think she would like to talk more about that and find ways to feel supported.
Elle: And to feel safe being who she is like that’s so key. Sorry there’s more (closes eyes) Ahh the experience of (I’m feeling her), moving into creative endeavours as an escape from reality verses because it’s who you are. So can she move into “this is who I am and I’m so comfortable here. I create art, I make pottery”. I can feel that she’s conflicted and maybe sometimes escaping.
Participant: Yeeeeaaaaah. Yes. Yeaaaah.
Elle: So can you be with her when she is in full expression of who she is - including the anger - so she knows there’s a safe space to be who she really is. And that the escape into other experiences is not the answer. That when she feels angry, she doesn’t isolate, she moves toward you. We can catch her. You can catch a nine year old. And if you don’t, don’t worry - she will be fine. That’s what I can feel - that tension. Does that sound?
Participant: That’s yup. You hit the nail on the head. That’s amazing, yeah. Like I knew that, but I missed that part in explaining what’s happening here. Yeah. It’s an escape. Yeah.
Elle: So let it be a place of connection. How can you as her mom create the space and environment and safety and loving experience to let her know that her expressing herself fully is safe. You get to do this. And this will change your life too, because she is your daughter.
Participant: Yeah.
Elle: Yeah. Aren’t they amazing? And our children chose us.
Elle: Every relationship is for the evolution of the humans to move us into more love. Every single relationship. So let’s do it. Right? All these nine year olds, this zone of age is inviting us into loving ourselves THROUGH it - more. How do I love myself harder.
How do I love myself in relationship with my daughter because sometimes I feel like a bad mom because she says “euughhtt” and slams the door. Oh, I just made that about me…and I come into awareness and it’s constant. But every time, I come back to love and we can do this - every time.
Isn’t that fun? Not easy. But when you know that this is possible, it’s possible and you just keep going.
I can feel that she is just a little bit confused about how this all works.
Participant: Yeah.
Elle: She will come to it on her own without being told by her mom how Source works. She’s going to come to this on her own anyway - no matter what happens.
Participant: She knows. She knows.
Elle: So let’s maximize this experience. Let’s go for a “Hey I want to hear more about your purpose question because I think this is a really good question”.
Elle: They are capable. They can handle this sh*t. The kids can handle the evolution of you. They will change with you. You change and they will do their thing. They will have their experience of your change it doesn’t need to stop you from changing.
They are gonna be okay. These kids are great - little monkeys.
And yes, they can do the dishes. We are not magical parents - we just know they can handle the feelings of anger about doing the dishes. And then we say, “Yeah it sucks you have to do the dishes, do the dishes, put them away.”
They can feel their feelings.